Writing Difficulties Are Almost Never About Writing
Writing challenges are about underlying developmental skills that haven’t fully formed yet, like:
✅ Whole-body coordination
✅ Core stability
✅ Sensory processing
✅ Motor planning
Be More Cat: The Value of Cozy Spaces
Just like our feline friends, children often benefit from having cozy spaces where they can retreat, reset, or simply feel contained.
More or Less Sensory Input?
But remember: sensory processing is not static. Children can fluctuate between needing more and less, and many have what we call mixed responsiveness.
The ‘Calm Up to Calm Down’ Way
Most people think that calming down looks like sitting quietly, taking deep breaths, listening to soft music, or doing something still and gentle. And for some, that might work.
But for many neurodivergent people, kids and adults alike, that’s not what calming down feels like at all.
Why Your Child’s Writing Isn’t Improving (Even After All That Practice)
Writing isn’t just a cognitive skill.
It’s a complex coordination of multiple systems and it builds in a specific sequence.
At the base of this developmental pyramid is sensory processing. From there, each layer supports the next.
Hypermobility in Kids’ Hands: Signs to Look For and How to Help
If your child avoids writing, says their hands hurt, presses too hard, or tires easily, it’s valid. They’re not being lazy. In fact, they’re often working extra hard just to keep up.
What is a Video-Based Assessment?
People are often surprised when I say I offer video-based assessments.
“Is that even effective?”
“Can you really assess a child that way?”
I get those questions a lot ……. and I get them!
So let me walk you through what a video-based assessment actually is, how it works, and why it can be so helpful.
7 Insights about Hypermobility
Hypermobility means some of the joints in your child’s body stretch and move more than expected. They’re extra bendy or flexible. But it’s not just about being “double-jointed.” Hypermobility can impact motor coordination, digestion, energy levels, sleep, emotional regulation, and even writing.
5 Things We Learned from Rosie the Cat About Writing Struggles
She wasn’t regressing.
She was recharging for the next big step.
And it reminded me so much of the kids I’ve worked with especially those with sensitive nervous systems who become overwhelmed and avoid writing.
10 Sensory and Nervous System Benefits of Nature
For kids who struggle in structured settings, or feel overwhelmed by noise, pressure, or adult-led demands, nature often offers a kind of quiet magic. It meets them exactly where they are.