Why I Work With Parents Instead of Just Children

Parent and child smiling together in a hammock, showing supportive family connection while working through writing difficulties.

Many families look for occupational therapy for writing difficulties, expecting the therapist to work mainly with the child.
Because of this, people sometimes ask why I work with parents rather than only working directly with children.
It’s a fair question.

What 25 Years as an OT Has Taught Me About Helping Kids

Back then, I didn’t even own a cell phone. I relied on a complicated map book to get around (Google Maps truly changed my life!). Social media wasn’t a thing. And the idea of working with families entirely online would have sounded impossible.

“My Child Can’t Even Sit Still!”

Child playing in cardboard, moving around.

I often think our society expects people to sit too much. In reality, it’s much better for us to be moving—getting up and down from the floor, staying active. Movement keeps circulation flowing, muscles strong, and our bodies from getting stuck.

Ever Wanted an OT’s Eyes on Your Child?

OT looking at computer.

You don’t need to wait for months, or feel like you have to figure it out on your own. Sometimes just a few small tweaks, tailored to your child, can make all the difference.

Rethinking Calm: It Doesn’t Always Mean Stillness

Child climbing ropes at an obstacle course

When we limit calm to one narrow definition, we risk overlooking the strategies that actually help a child regulate. True calm comes from feeling safe and comfortable in your body—not from forcing yourself to appear quiet and still.

What is a Video-Based Assessment?

Woman sitting on a couch looking at a computer during a video-based assessment session

People are often surprised when I say I offer video-based assessments.
“Is that even effective?”
“Can you really assess a child that way?”
I get those questions a lot ……. and I get them!
So let me walk you through what a video-based assessment actually is, how it works, and why it can be so helpful.

Sensory Chalk Walk Obstacle Courses

Child participating in a chalk walk obstacle course, jumping, balancing, and playing outdoors.

People often think these chalk obstacle courses are difficult to make, however they’re so fun and you can involve your kids in making them too. We made a bunch of these on our streets for younger and older children, and even made one for an elderly neighbour across the street. It was so fun watching them through our window laugh and do them with friends.