Why I Work With Parents Instead of Just Children

Parent and child smiling together in a hammock, showing supportive family connection while working through writing difficulties.

Many families look for occupational therapy for writing difficulties, expecting the therapist to work mainly with the child.
Because of this, people sometimes ask why I work with parents rather than only working directly with children.
It’s a fair question.

What 25 Years as an OT Has Taught Me About Helping Kids

Back then, I didn’t even own a cell phone. I relied on a complicated map book to get around (Google Maps truly changed my life!). Social media wasn’t a thing. And the idea of working with families entirely online would have sounded impossible.

Rethinking Calm: It Doesn’t Always Mean Stillness

Child climbing ropes at an obstacle course

When we limit calm to one narrow definition, we risk overlooking the strategies that actually help a child regulate. True calm comes from feeling safe and comfortable in your body—not from forcing yourself to appear quiet and still.

Sensory Support Doesn’t Have to Be Hard

Child joyfully throwing a heavy rock into the water, showing natural sensory play.

People often think sensory support means setting up picture-perfect activities, obstacle courses, or buying loads of sensory equipment to meet their child’s needs.
And I get why you might think that.
I used to believe that too, especially in my early OT days, nearly 27 years ago.

OT is not just for your child

Family enjoying creative play and connection outdoors, highlighting how occupational therapy supports the whole family—not just the child.

When one family member struggles, it impacts everyone. Occupational therapy goes beyond supporting your child’s sensory and emotional needs to include the whole family—parents, siblings, and their nervous systems. Discover how gentle, practical strategies can create a more connected, calm, and supported home environment for everyone.